22 years old Alviss Kong committed suicide due to relationship failure!

Walaheh,what can I say about this issue?Reading up this kind of issue kinda like refreshing up my exhausted brain.Well,just like few minutes ago I bumped into a lovely couple on the way back to the ward where my room-mate is admitted,and like the next minute,I logged on to my facebook and read a shocking news about this guy who actually committed suicide due to his 4 months old relationship failure.SERIOUSLY,WHAT THE HECK WEY!!Ups and downs in love can lead you no-where!!

Through some reliable source,I found out that he jumped off from a building in Cheras,Kuala Lumpur(that’s my area!!*knocks head hard on wall*) after sending some sort of farewell message to all his friends and family in Facebook.

Here is the message :

“devil bin this is the way how i love,perhaps ppl will think it was crazy

i’ve never tried to put down my pride my dignity my ego-ness on my first ex…but u were totally diff,i put down my pride my dignity my every shit

just to beg u….but i failed…as always im just a failure in a relation

but that’s just me,i’ll only do the things which i think its worth…

will i became ur memory forever ? who knows..since u were already special when the first sight i saw u…

perhaps,u’ll just fucking laugh at me…i bet there’s plenty of ppl will laugh too =) but who cares ?

that’s just me…that’s the way i are….

the last thing

i do appreciate everything about us….u were the light in my life..u given me determination for my future…but everything is gone…i don’t blame u actually…

because 爱情是自由的 ~ so just wish u’ll have ya happy life in d future

ILY & IMY ~ sorry that i couldn’t brings u to walk until the end of the day”

希望你会记得在你的生命中…曾几何时有个一个那么爱你的人出现过 ❤

P/S : Please do not blame her….Im the one who decided this..she’s just the one given me the motivation n courage…..to my FAMILY,please..i beg of u all,dont ever blame on her…

To her future BF : IF U DID ANYTHINGS THAT WOULD HURT HER..I FUCKING SWEAR I’LL FUCKING HAUNT U DOWN EVEN IM JUST A SPIRIT =) !

The Last Photo of Him

The Last Photo of Him

Article about him in chinese press:

Alviss Kong's article in Chinese Press

Alviss Kong's article in Chinese Press

His Last Status Update in Fb:


Scribbles in his blog:

First thing that came across me the moment I read this was,”dam,boy u’re such an idiot”.And of course,who will not for the action he had taken but it’s too late.He is gone!!They said he was under a terrible depression mode that he could not overcome it.The question that has bugged me from just now is,”what is happening to teenagers nowdays?”I am not accusing everyone,it’s just a bunch of them who are just too good in sailing through their emotions without thinking practically.I’m also a 21 years old teen,well adult,and of course I went through this relationship failure ‘thing’ in my life before.I have to admit,it was such a pain in ass.Yes,the thought of committing suicide came across me at that mean of time but I did not allow myself to be carried away by my emotions.My friends and family was my medicine.They cured my pain with their love and care.

I did not fail in my life due to my first relationship failure but oppositely I came out from that emotional void state successfully and now in the process of being a Degree holder soon.I still have my beloved family and friends around guiding me through out my life and not forgetting I’m having someone special already now!..=)

Well,just would like to inform,life is so beautiful that we have to live to experience it.In the case of Alviss Kong,he sacrificed his life for a girl whom he just got to know for four months.Why didn’t he sacrifice his love for his family who showed him love for the past 22 years of his living??Why didn’t he think about his parents or siblings or friends?Is it really worth it for sacrificing his life for this small issue?Man,I have no words to express exactly what I’m feeling but it’s just m worried if there is anymore committing suicide case that I have to come across…Its scary for sure.

What his friends blogged about him:

1)Click here

2)Click here

And I also came across Alviss Kong’s clip in you tube:

CHECK THIS OUT(SORROW LONG DAY SONG);

I know all of us have been in that stage where we just want to turn off our switch but we have to bear in our mind that all the problems in this world no matter how critical it is will have its solution.We just have to sit and figure it out how we can overcome it.If suicide is a way to solve,then believe me,you can see no humans on earth…

Lastly,some ‘fans’ of him has created a fan page for him in Facebook where you can view all the positive and negative views from the public besides the pictures of Alviss and his love.You may click here to check out that page.




If U’re in a relationship, married or none, read this. U’ll know why at the end.

I do not know the original writer for this short story,but it definitely touched my heart that i decided to share the link in facebook and also in wordpress as well.

“Its a story that teaches us to appreciate our loved ones because we would never realize the importance of them in our life untill the moment they’re gone.”

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