The Secret-OPRAH

The Secret of life…

How far do you feel good about your life,have you achieved everything in your life?happiness?prosperity??goals?desires?Have you heard about THE SECRET? If yes,how far do you know about THE SECRET? and if no,no worries,its time for you to unreveal the secret of your life,in a simple way,it teaches you to attract universal positive energy to help you accomplish your needs…
I have posted few videos of Oprah interviewing the writers of The SECRET to safe your time to learn and understand more about THE SECRET..







My Favourite Mr Bean Animated Series..

My all time favourite Mr Bean animation series:

Part 1:

Part 2:

Let It All Go..

We all have that some part of a broken heart that can never be fixed,

That some part that no matter how hard we try, we can’t let go,

That some memories will haunt us down till the end of days,

Where that one person that used to mean the world to us will not mean the same anymore;

Ironically isn’t a complete stranger either,

It feels like as if you are completely stranded in the midst of a huge crowd,

You struggle so much to even breathe,

Even though you have the soothing most zephyr caressing your skin away,

So much of suffocation that your moral almost meets extinction,

LOVE a four lettered word,

Way beyond comprehension,

That even confusion isn’t the right word to describe it,

It’s so complicated,

That it’s almost synonymous to the name of the person you once loved,

With all of your heart and soul..

How To Know If A Guy Is Being True Or Not?

DUHHH!!!….m kinda fed up thinking about love,at a point of time I wish I had a boy friend and a great love like those stories in Disney cartoons..!!Sadly,I can just wish my life but I can’t have it in real..IMPOSSIBLE…Well,today’s post of mine got nothing to do with me but somehow I’m involved in it.A good friend of mine was chatting with me a few hours ago.She was eagerly telling me about this one guy that she got to know from Facebook,how she almost fall for him and then one fine day,she found out he was back to his ex-girl friend..WHAT THE HECK!!…if it was me,I would have screwed him upside down or maybe give him some thousand of slaps and kicks till no one recognize him!!Unfortunately,it was my friends,she took things easy and stop communicating with him.But,as her close friend,of course,i know she still do have feelings on him…

Okay the shocking part,his girlfriend dumped him last sunday!!! and now,u can guess! YES,he wanted back my friend and trying his very best to convince her that this time he is not going back to his ex-girl friend….she consulted me,and honestly I really wanted to tell her,she should dump him back!!!…BUT I can’t,she likes him alot.The way she talked to me as though she need some positive motivation from me…and yeahhh,I told her to do some investigation on him whether if he is really being true to her or not….


Can anyone help me out in this matter..m just too confused…or maybe I guess I have to google it!!!(emmm….eyebrows up*)


25 Secrets Women Wish Men To Know

I just finish reading a preety fascinating article in net and a thought of publishing it in the wordpress tickled my enjoy reading it(don’t be shock,some truths about women were revealed out here in this article)

Here is the 25 secrets women wish men to know;

1. “Please listen to me. Not because what I’m about to say will rock your world, but because listening is a sign of respect that rocks my world.”

2. “Women speak a different dialect than men. For example, “I’m fine” means “I’m so not fine,” just as “No dessert for me” means “I’ll be polishing off yours.”

3. “Remember, PMS stands for “physical and mental stress.” So let me cry freely, behave irrationally, and eat your dessert. My mood swings are hormonal, not personal.”

4. “Manicures and pedicures are a woman’s gift to her man. I love looking pretty for you. The time to worry is when I stop going for them.”

5. “Always tell me when I look hot; never tell me when I don’t. And don’t forget: I need 20 compliments to offset one thoughtless remark.”

6. “I remember the shirt you were wearing when you first said, “I love you.” The fact that you don’t makes me question whether you meant it.”

7. “I loved you long before I told you. Playing the long game is in a woman’s DNA. We don’t throw a Hail Mary in the first quarter. (And you thought we didn’t know football.)”

8. “Of course you’re the best lover I’ve ever had. All others cease to exist when I fall in love.”

9. “I’ll never tell you my true number. Never, never, never! Besides, see Secret 8.”

10. “I read your horoscope every day.”

11.” I secretly delight when the maitre d’ slips up and calls us Mr. and Mrs.”

12. “Spontaneously kiss my neck from behind, and I might let you stay back there for a while.”

13. “Yes, my girlfriend knows what we did last night. We share everything, including that.”

14. “Make me laugh and I’m happy. Laugh at yourself and I’m all yours.”

15. “A little jealousy is good if (a) no kneecaps are broken and (b) you don’t cross-examine me to exhaustion. The right balance shows you care, and it’s even flattering.”

16. “I don’t withhold sex to punish you. Sometimes I just need to be left alone but, at the same time, not left alone. And no, I can’t explain that.”

17. “I can, will, and do fake it. Like when Gossip Girl is starting. Would you rather I fake a headache?”

18. “I love sex. With or without you, as Bono might say. My mind is filthier than you might think.”

19. “You are irresistible: freshly showered, doing something sporty or strenuous, smiling, charming the old lady from the third floor, suited, reading the business section, DIY-ing . . .”

20. “Do you want flowers?” kills the romantic gesture. Don’t ask, just do.”

21. “I’ll probably be late because I’m preening for you. At least that’s how I reason. My reasoning skills are phenomenal!”

22. “If you cheat, I may not break up with you. But you’ll wish I had.”

23. “I once kissed a girl and liked the taste of her cherry ChapStick. No, I didn’t. That’s your fantasy. Sincerely sorry

24. “Here’s how to fix what you’re doing wrong in bed: When you go slow, go slower. When you go fast, go faster.”

25. “I feel lucky to have you, and I hope you feel the same. You can’t have it all unless you have someone to share it with.”


If U’re in a relationship, married or none, read this. U’ll know why at the end.

I do not know the original writer for this short story,but it definitely touched my heart that i decided to share the link in facebook and also in wordpress as well.

“Its a story that teaches us to appreciate our loved ones because we would never realize the importance of them in our life untill the moment they’re gone.”


“How To Love Without Expecting Anything In Return”

Love can be expressed and showed in many ways but the question is, is your love pure enough for you to not expect anything in return from your loved ones?Love is not only to be meant for couples,its for friend,family or anyone that you are close with.I always do adore Shajahan,who builded a beautiful Taj Mahal for his beloved wife,Mumtaj.Did he ever expect anything in return from Mumtaj such as building another Taj Mahal for him to prove her love to him as how he did?Taj Mahal is the prove of existence of unconditional love,which means showing love without expecting anything in return…As u guys realize i m straining a lot on the phrase “showing love without expecting anything in return”,which i will be blogging about today…
To love someone without expecting anything in return is possibly the hardest love to find and to give, as we all require to receive love back. There may be an occasion where we are forced into the kind of situation where this is required. So how can you be the kind of person who loves without expecting anything back? Here are 3 steps which can guide you along the way:

1)Lose your selfishness

It starts with losing our selfishness in what we require from others. It is hard to give to someone love without expecting anything back, but sometimes a situation can deteriorate to such an extent that the other person is incapable of giving anything back to you in return. Maybe their mental condition has taken a turn for the worst, maybe they just find it hard to express love, or maybe they are just not in love with you for some reason, for example. Having an unconditional commitment to someone means loving them despite not ever receiving anything back from them and any selfish desire to receive love needs to be put aside in that situation.

2)Learn to love yourself

Something that can help in doing this, is to learn to love yourself. When you do achieve this, you don’t have to rely on receiving love so much as you fully accept yourself and are content in within your own shell. It’s not to say that you don’t need to receive love, but you are not as needy as others may be.

3)Be committed to them

If you truly love a person, resolve to commit to loving them without expecting anything back. Once you have this resolution, try and stick to it as much as possible and give commit to giving them the time and energy they need. It is extremely hard work and can be quite draining, so give yourself space and time to recharge yourself, so to speak. If they are responsive to your commitment, quite often this can turn them around to loving you in return.

Never experience an unconditional love???Try out the steps i have given to you,this is what i have learned from my boyfriend.But please just bear in your mind,do something with the pure heart,NEVER expect anything in return.That will be the respect we re giving to our love and our loved ones……….=)